On our third date, we were watching movies at her place and getting along well. Two days later, we became official." - Landon, 22Ĥ. We laughed when we decided to leave the bedroom doors wide open, since it was important to hear people coming back. We didn't really know what we were doing, but it wasn't awkward at all because we trusted each other a lot. She was staying at my family's house for the weekend - the first time either of us had met another's parents - and when we realized everyone had left for a few hours one morning, we gave sex a shot. We got really serious, really quickly, basically spending all our weekends and some weekday time together. "We had been hooking up and hanging out for about three weeks when I was 21. We were so busy hooking up that we forgot to check if she was asleep." - Jake, 19ģ. Five minutes in, we heard a voice say, 'What are you guys doing?!' It was her roommate - sitting upright, staring at us from her bed. When we got back to her dorm, we went at it. In the Uber home, we started flirting and making out. One night, we were both coming back from a party.
The girl I lost my virginity with was a good friend of mine. "I was 18 and in my first semester of college. We fumbled around with the condom in the dark, but eventually realized it would be easier with the lights on." - Jay, 18Ģ. We waited for her parents to go to bed, and after what seemed like hours, they did.
After waiting two or three nights out of anxiety, we were finally able to share the experience. "I had just turned 17 and my girlfriend and I had been dating for a few months when we decided it was the right time. Below, 18 guys get real about the first time they had sex - who they did it with, how it happened, and how they felt afterward.ġ. No matter how old you are or what the circumstances are, having sex for the first time can feel like a huge deal.